Sometimes, conversations run their course, but the other person doesn’t seem to have received the memo. Whether you’re trapped in small talk at a work event or your neighbour is giving you a minute-by-minute breakdown of their cat’s daily routine, here’s how to bow out gracefully.
1. The classic time excuse
A polite “I’d love to chat more, but I need to [insert pressing obligation here]” works wonders. A meeting, a deadline, a prior engagement,whatever gets you out swiftly and smoothly. Bonus points if you add, “Let’s catch up soon!” (even if you have no intention of doing so).
2. The appreciative wrap-up
End on a high note with a warm smile and a bit of gratitude. “It’s been lovely chatting with you!” signals that the conversation is wrapping up. Pair it with a natural movement, like stepping back or turning slightly away, and they’ll get the hint.
3. The mutual next-step
This works well in professional settings. “I’ll drop you an email about that” or “Let’s set up a time to discuss further” gives the impression of moving forward while bringing the current exchange to a close. Efficient and polite,a double win.
4. The social handover
If you’re at an event, smoothly pass them to someone else. “Oh, have you met Sarah? She’s also into [insert relevant interest].” This keeps the energy flowing and lets you slip away while they bond over their mutual love of artisanal cheese or obscure 80s films.
5. The cheerful exit
If all else fails, just be direct but friendly. “I should let you go!” is a wonderfully vague yet effective way to shift responsibility onto them,because of course, they have things to do too, right? Accompany with a warm smile and a slight step away, and you’re free!
Politeness is key, but so is self-preservation. With these tactics, you can gracefully exit any conversation,without leaving a trail of awkwardness behind.
